Someone did a job on her. She has it all worked in her mind. Her defense plan is solid in tact. I can see glimpses of truth when I talk to her. Tears will pool abd I see that I made sense BUT THEN she will reposition her posture, tilt her head to one side, stare blankly at me and put up her front. (Just like her brother does so well just without the attitude.) I told her she doesn't have to lie or make these negative accusations or hate me or act mad and ugly at us to want to go back to her mom. Why can't you just be good, grateful even. Be honest about our three months together. It wasn't perfect here, but you were happy here. what we expect of you has never changed since we became a family 12 years ago. It was the same in Jan as it is now. You never had a problem with it until Easter weekend. Then your mom got a child support request and you came back an entirely different child. brainwashed. It's like hearing an addict. And she's craving for her mother's love.
I don't understand how a mother could use their child as a pawn in their own personal vendetta. How do you not want what's best for your child instead you manipulate them, feed them promises for your own personal gain. why would you want your daughter to start a BRAND new school 6 weeks before the end of the year. Why wld you want that? L is being used.
It will take years for L to see that truth... Until then I pleaded with her to just be honest, admit you miss your mom and go bk for that not bc you can't stand it here.
Can't you do that for the little girls. They are suffering. Why do you want them to see you leave like this. Let them remember all the laughs and good times. Don't scar them like this. (Deep sadness) You don't have to hate me for it to be ok to go back. I know it makes it easier for you but it doesn't have to be that way. please L